Every man has his own destiny; the only imperative is to follow it, to accept it, no matter where it leads him
~ Henry Miller~
A lot of times, when patients present in the ER, the problem they present with didn’t start that day.
One therefore wonders, if they are given the chance to go back in time, will they make different choices? If they do, would it make a difference now? Will they be somewhere else and not the ER?
Are somethings just destined to be, however we may try we can’t run away from destiny? I faintly recall watching a movie (would love to remember title) in which the protagonist died but was able to go back to the past to prevent herself from dying; as many times as she changed the circumstance that led to her death, she kept being killed through other methods.
The obese woman presenting with a stroke;
could she have somehow prevented her weight from getting out of proportion? Or was it out of her hands? Who do we blame when she finally gets a stroke at 60?
1. Her parents who let her indulge in whatever she fancied and took no heed when she was bigger than her peers?
2. Her School whose business it wasn’t to veer her towards a more active lifestyle?
3. Her friends who loved her however she was?
4. Her job which required her to be chauffered to any distance however near?
5. Her doctor who was satisfied with only prescribing a new set of drugs whenever she came around?
At what point in her life can she go back to make things right?
Who’s to blame?
The experience of others adds to our knowledge, but not to our wisdom; that is dearer bought.
Addenda: The recent death of Whitney Houston made me take another look at this posting and it rings more true.
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